Things Unsaid

I’ve been meaning to talk further about the whole sex thing, but it seems to never be time. I don’t recall your reasoning for being opposed to oral sex, but I don’t feel like finding a priest to agree that it’s okay is really the solution. I think it’s like abortion and gays, the church is against it, but you make your own opinion on whether you agree or not. 

I guess it bothers me because I feel like my opinion doesn’t matter, but other people’s opinion does. So if it takes a priest to approve it, I’d rather not have it. I’ll learn to be okay without it. I also want you to understand that no matter what you decide, the consequences (known or unknown) are your responsibility. I’m reminded of Trang blaming Nick for selling the house. I don’t want the priest or me or Vinh being blamed for your choices. I don’t mean that in a mean way or anything. Just wanted to note this since it’s been on the back burner for a while. Now that I’ve said it, we don’t need to talk about it unless you want or need to. I’m finding my peace. ✌️