Our Love Story Begins Today

Counting down. Are you ready? I really hope we find a ride from airport, but I think we can do public transportation if needed.  Cleaning out the fridge is kind of stressful, but it’s also nice to have things cleared/clean. Hopefully there’s a lot or R on this vacation (relaxation). 🙏 

Sometimes we forget the benefits we have access to. Sometimes they’re extra work and we’re lazy. But time is money and so here’s some money for you. And a reminder that “extra” money is out there. If you went to the doctor, you can get $60 back from my Aflac plan (once a year) for being healthy. We got a lot going on, but something to do when you get back, ETT!!!

Today was a long day, but now it’s almost over and I can go to sleep. But before I do, I need to complete this blog post. I didn’t really have any time until now. I had a notary class and test today. I hope I passed. It’s funny because I tried to take the class more serious this time and now I’m more worried I didn’t pass even though got a 90 something percent last time. Nothing exciting or interesting happened today, but this was my day. WWW.

Probably not most exciting way to spend time together, but church is definitely an opportunity for family time. I have to use the camera to see if he’s asleep. If you see his eye ball reflect off the camera, you know he’s awake. I may not be as enthusiastic as Adam, but I still do my job as a parent. It’s like a second job. So don’t worry about that. TLG!!! Have your phone on you at all times when we’re not together. Unless you’re okay with me ignoring you when you’re trying to reach me. 

I came home this morning to the sweet scent of thit kho. It was too early to eat, but I look forward to eating it later today. Man, Kaiser is busy. They told me mom could just walk in. Always a bad idea… Machine is messed up for taking numbers. Dang. Anyhow. Thanks for making food. I hope it wasn’t too much work. Hope you had a good night with Boba even though you smacked his head. WWW!!!

Some are big and some are small. Some matter a lot, some not at all.  This was one that probably didn’t matter that much, but I wondered if pressed water would result in better thit kho…anyhow, just want you to know that you may not agree or see it, but I always try to have your best interest when I make decision. TTQD!!

Not sure if you noticed that things between us have been smoother recently. I’m not sure if it’s something you’re actively doing or if it’s something I am. Either way, it’s nice. Wouldn’t you agree? Hopefully the really rough times are behind us and it gets better from here. But I hear there’s a 7 year itch we have to worry about. Just wanted you to know that I notice the difference and appreciate it. TTQD!!!

You remember how wives are supposed to be submissive to their husbands? How’s that going? 😂. You ever clean the vent cover? I tried to clean it, but my arm got tired. I’ll do it again next time I change the filter. Today’s hidden brain is about false memories. They also have a game app to help your brain. I haven’t tried it yet though. ATEN!!!

I think those things go hand in hand. It’s hard to be healthy when you’re poor. Anyhow, today was T-Mobile Tuesday and they had this deal for $3 pizza. I figured you and Vinh wouldn’t eat this so I gave away the leftovers. It wasn’t great, but it’s cheaper than Subway. Hope you had a good day today. ATEN!!!

Can you make a list of things you want me to improve on and I will start making plans to help me? I have some of my own things I want to work on too. This is the lint from your off white sweater. I think it’s falling apart. I’m trying to get my life together. Thanks for your help and understanding. ATEN!!!

Sometimes you’re too hard on yourself. Sometimes you’re not hard enough. With all things, it’s about finding that balance. It’s good that you feel bad about missing church, but I’m sure God is understanding. The most important this is that you made a plan to not forget in the future. Next time I’ll wake you up, but I just thought it was important that you slept because you’re so cranky.

The last few days I’ve been having stomach cramps. I wonder if maybe it’s from lactose intolerance. I never had that before, but I’ve only recently been eating more cereal and milk. It’s not hunger related, but I’ve been eating when it happens and it seems to help. Hope you’re enjoying your nap. I’m doing laundry. See you soon. ATEN!!!

Not sure how the math will add up, but I think my retirement should be comfortable. It doesn’t seem like I’ve contributed enough or will contribute enough, but according to the math, I should receive 93% of my highest salary for the rest of my life. Less if I decided to set aside some for a beneficiary. That’s why I’m not so worried about Vinh’s college. So try not to stress to much about me not contributing now. TTQD!!!

Well it’s flying and I’m really having any fun. A lot got done today though. Maybe it’s because I’m worried about the leak at my parents or my dad’s driver’s license test. 😞  Lorraine wanted to see how much bigger your head is. This is missing the puffy ball too. Anyhow, I sure hope life gets easier, but I doubt it. At least Vinh had a good appt today. ATEN!!

I feel bad I haven’t had a chance to fix Vinh’s truck. It’s sad how sad he looks when he realizes it’s broken. It’s also funny when he gets excited because he thinks he fixed it. Anyhow, I will try to get it done sooner than later, but there’s so much to do. If only we won the lottery tonight…

I know it’s hard to go from work to taking care of Vinh. And then to go to sleep and wake up and take to care of Vinh until you leave for work. Vinh and I appreciate your effort. It’s hard work I know, but it’ll pay off we hope. 🙏 

Had a dream. I have dreams too. I dream that someday, we’ll be able to be less critical of each other and more supportive. I dream that we will both make efforts to work on our faults and maintain our virtues. I dream that our son will grow up and be a good person and productive member of society. I dream that our family and friends will have good lives and their burdens lightened. I dream that we’ll have more money than we need and less wants and desires. #dreams

Everyone is sleeping, but me. I’m wondering how easier it would be if we could just win the lottery. Our lives aren’t super hard, but they could be easier. We could also do so much good. Funlanthropy is the name of the charity organization I wanted to start. If only the winning numbers were switched. Anyhow, we’re gonna be okay, but it’d be nice if life was easier and better for everyone…Vinh’s breathing seems better during his nap than overnight. I’m glad my coughing hasn’t bothered him.

I understand that your sister and you have your own relationship. Yet when I listen to you talk, I can't help but feel that you're somewhat harsh with her. I'm conflicted about it for many reasons. It feels like you're fighting and I feel a little uncomfortable. It's also concerning given your sister's medical condition and I wonder if you might trigger her. I also find some of the things you say to her similar to the things I say to you, but when I say it to you, you react negatively so it just seems a little ironic or hypocritical. Anyhow, I really hope your relationship with her is what you believe it to be and that your conversations don't impact Vinh since you're talking in front of him (and Lucas). I was sitting in the room trying to not listen, but it was pretty loud. Anyhow, good luck with her. 

I used to do a lot of arts and crafts, but I’ve run out of ideas and technology. But ever since I made the shirt for Evelyn, I’ve rediscovered that’s I can still make t-shirts.  I’m hoping the heat press from Kim will help the shirts stay cooler for longer. Otherwise I might have to give up again. 🙏 It’d be cool to just wear my own designs. I❤️DANH used to be my brand 😂.

I was listening to a podcast today about a guy who was accidentally shot by his friend, but survived. It just reminded me all the times I almost died… It’s crazy how a single decision/action can have such severe and long term consequences. It’d be interesting to know how other choices would pan out. I wonder what happened to that guy that accidentally shot and killed my acquaintance. 🪦

I ate out for breakfast and lunch today. Man I’m fat and fancy I know.  This is a new Chinese noodle spot on Freeport. I think I’ll try their other dishes. This one was just okay though. The parking there sucks so I had to get it to go. The soup bag reminds me of your catheter. Maybe we can go to Old Gui Lin sometime. 

I don’t mind picking Vinh up, but getting him to eat and ready for school is always a challenge. Today I made the mistake of letting him eat the French toast while eating eggs. He no longer wanted eggs.  Then I tried oatmeal. It wasn’t hot, but maybe he’s used to colder oatmeal and so he spit it out. He only ate 2 spoons of yogurt. It was a real challenge. Anyhow, I know you enjoy feeding Vinh so I’m glad you feed him most often. TTQD!!!

It’s been a week since we got back from NY, but I finally feel like we’re back in the grind, just in time for MLK.  It could be that most people are back from vacation tomorrow so work is back to normal too. I hope you had a great weekend and are ready for another week. #rejuvreset

The year started off positive for MJ. $56 Although I didn’t have much recollection or reminiscing time on the drive back today. Guess it was too cold and late for that? When I get back from time off from work I’m always worried about the amount of work, but it turns out okay. I hope today is the same for the Rosauros and Faith. DLLC!!!

Hi Em. I’m golfing today. So far it’s been good. Not great, but I got a birdie. Gonna have lunch and then probably pick up Vinh. What a long day. Almost like working 😂. I’m playing about once a month now. Weather and playing partners have been limited. I wonder how different it would be if Tao was still golfing 😞. BBQD…

Looks like I’ve finally caught up enough after vacation to get back to some normalcy in life. Today I’m trying to squeeze in brake change for the Accord. Hopefully they can get to me for fluid before they close at 2. Then I have to go get the pads changed. Safety first. Golf should be fun tomorrow. Thanks for dropping Vinh off. 

This is the anniversary of my friend Loan’s passing. 2001 was a rough year.  23 years later, a lot has changed. Lots of memories (good and bad) and I’m still here. Hoping for more good times than bad for the remainder of my years. It’s not the number of breathes we take, but the moments that take our breathe away 🙏 

Here’s something cute I witnessed today.  Vinh was saying mommy and I looked back to see him looking at his mommy in my wallet. I didn’t have any toys in the Sequoia, so I gave him my wallet. It made for a quiet ride to daycare today until I dropped him off. He was not happy 😂.

For every action, there’s a reaction (equal and opposite to be exact). I feel sometimes that’s what you fail to understand or don’t care about.  It’s a new year and I hope you can take the opportunity to change your habits in this area. You decided to sleep an extra 15 minutes, we were 10 minutes late to church. You wanted to eat during Vinh’s nap time. He’s not napping now. Wasted over 2 hours we could have just gone to Bambu or visited Vince. Now he’s crying uncontrollably and your response is let him be. You seem to be okay inconveniencing him and others when it suits you, but when it doesn’t suit you, it’s all about Vinh. Anyhow, this isn’t the way I intended to start the new year, but I guess it’s my fault for not being firm. And he’s been screaming for 15 mins because you said let him be. But if you were blowing me you’d want to be next to his room so you can hear him. It’s gonna be hard, but I’m gonna work this year on letting you see the real consequences of your actions an...