To Be Continued?

You often tell me that I’m difficult, but I wonder if you realize how difficult you are as well. You often comment about other couples, but have you thought that maybe their partners are difficult and hence why it appears they don’t argue?

I’m really tired of being painted as this horrible person that always yells at and berates his partner. If your family or friends don’t like me, I’m fine with that as long as they have an accurate image of me to make that decision from. We talked about cause and effect yesterday. I admit, I can probably change the way I react, but it’s also fair that I wouldn’t have to react if there wasn’t something to react to. 

At the end of the day, I think we both can agree, we don’t like fighting or arguing with one another. It doesn’t feel good to have our feelings invalidated. We want our partner to support us. And we want to stay in this union. The only thing we need to figure out is how we arrive at the result we both want. ATEN!!