Sigh 😞

Yesterday was a frustrating night. I’m glad I blogged earlier so now I had some time to think about it. Ultimately, there are a couple of things. When you were single, you were independent and could do everything yourself. You had to because you were single. When you got married, you joined into a union. If you don’t think you need help or if you want to do things alone (that should be done together) maybe you should be single again.

You mentioned before that you had a chip on your shoulder and that’s why you try to be independent in our relationship. I’m can’t keep trying. If you want to sacrifice your health and safety and that of your son and our family to proof you can do things alone, that’s on your conscience if anything happens from your stubbornness. Lastly, whether you believe it or not, you are very lucky to have someone that puts up with all your issues. You claim to be traditional, but you are more opinionated than a traditional Vietnamese wife. I do a lot and ignore a lot. I get annoyed, but there’s a lot more I let go. They say we don’t appreciate things until they’re gone. I hope that doesn’t happen with you and our marriage. Once things start dying, it’s very hard to save them. It’s better to keep them healthy…