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Happy Birthday To You

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I'm glad you got your refund. I'm sorry Vinh's eye is bad. I try not to publish negative things because I don't want to make it permanent, but I think it's important that I post things we don't get to talk about. I don't want to take up too much time, but here are some things I hope we can work on. It's a gift to us. - Be fair. I often find you treat others differently. What I mean is you treat yourself and your family and your friends differently than you treat me, my family and my friends. I just don't think that's right. If the shoe was on the other foot, I'm sure you wouldn't like it. Also see that what bothers you about Vinh is what bothers me about you. The only difference is that he's a kid, you're an adult. You should know and do better. (i.e. you yell at him for not listening, yet you don't listen to me...) - Be thankful for all that you have and the wonderful life and husband and kid you have. I know you don't ha...
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Happy Birthday

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To me. Thank you for the birthday card and not buying junk from the airport. It’s been quite another year for me. But now it’s time to get serious. TJ’s 50th was a welcome and wake up. I need to do better so I can be around for longer. Anyhow. That’s all I have to say about that…
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Happy Uyeniversary!!!

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I said everything I needed to say in the card. Sorry Vinh ruined the surprise. Hopefully better and more time ahead for Team Matcha Milk Tea.
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Happy Mother's Day

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I mean, "you're welcome" LOL. I know you don't like our talks, but I really think they're important to a better future. But that only works if we both are committed to being better. Change isn't always easy. If it was easy, everyone would be happy, in shape and nice. It's going to be a lot of weddings, family, friends, challenges coming over the next few weeks. It'll be easy to forget what we talked about today. I hope you remember and make a conscious effort to live as Christ would want you to live. I think if you can truly do that, marriage, family, work, would be easy peasy, lemon squeasy. In any case, in addition to giving you the gift of being a wife and mother, I will work on giving you more grace. I just hope you don't take advantage of me...
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❤️

I think I asked you before if you’d still marry me if we went back in time. I don’t recall your answer, but I’m assuming it’s yes because it got you Vinh.  I always go back and forth about what I would do. Especially after we have a rough moment. I keep telling myself that it’s a rough moment, not a rough life. But it is difficult. I don’t know if you really care for me or I don’t feel it.  But after 🀄️ sessions, when I’m happy or relaxed or feeling carefree, I find myself thinking about you. On this golf trip I thought about you a lot. So it’s more than 50/50 that I would choose to marry you and have Vinh. I hope either I discover your caring that I miss or that you become more caring and thoughtful. Or both. But I can say that it’s a yes now for me. ATEN!
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Where Do We Go From Here?

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And how do we get to here: I still like that photo we took in Notre Dame. Anyhow, I hope today is a positive turning point. Sometimes is so frustrating to hear you talk so fatalistically, but if that's what it takes for you to get somewhere positive for everyone, IIWII. I've always one to favor results over intentions. It's annoying to have to blog from my Mac mini in order to get pictures to show up, but I'm more than happy to continue to blog here, but only if it's positive. *pray*
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Chuck Mong Nam Mui

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I know it’s wrong 😂. Anyhow, I wanted to take the opportunity today to wish you and our family a prosperous, peaceful, healthy, and happy Tet.  I know there have been lots of ups and downs and lefts and rights, but I think we’ve done well to continue moving forward. It would be nice if the journey was smoother, but at least we didn’t go backwards (failure to conceive isn’t a step back). I’m hopeful that the stars and universe are aligning for us this year. It may not be where we think we want to go, but I have faith that it’s where we should be. 🙏 
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