HNY

I’m really trying this year to be better. But I’m gonna need your help. I keep framing things as not about me or you, but about a problem I want us to solve together. I just feel like you want to keep it about me and me having feelings.

But it’s not about my feelings. It’s about the actions that problems my feelings. Like if someone keeps stabbing me I can choose not to scream, but the person should really stop stabbing me. And if I do scream, I shouldn’t be blamed because I keep getting stabbed. Sometimes I feel like you’re the victim, but it’s your actions that cause my reaction. All I’m trying to do now is figure out how to stop your actions. How would you feel if I kept doing inconsiderate things and annoyed or disrespected you? TLG!