Sighday

Sigh…but hey, every cloud has a silver lining.

I know our debates get heated, but I want you to know I really only get this way because I care. It’s not out of malice or spite. I hope you know I do love you very much. I understand that we are great people individually, but that doesn’t meet we’re great people together. I am really trying to though. I want us to be great people together. Better together than apart. ATEN!

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  1. Uyen DJuly 3, 2021 at 12:15 AM

    I just read the 2 articles by Dr Gottman you sent. And one of it recommended that if couple is in a fight and feel flooded (overwhelmed) they should take a break and come back when they’re ready. I know you didn’t want to because you want to resolve things rather than wait and that you might forget your train of thought but I really was feeling overwhelmed today after an hour of fight and I really wanted a break, I know we want to resolve but I think we both should take a break when both parties are cooled down before finishing discussion. The articles really help.

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