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I’m sorry if you don’t feel like I let you vent. I’ll work on just listening and not saying anything in the moment.

For me in this moment, I just feel like you are stressed, but you don’t care about finding positive ways to deal with stress. Rather you just want to avoid it. Unfortunately, many of the things we find stressful are things our partner enjoys or has to do. And so if we’re gonna have to do it anyways, should we try and learn the best way to get through it?

This is a new blog, but the old post about insanity still applies in married life. If we keep doing the same things we’re gonna keep getting the same results. If we want to not feel stressed about having “parties”, then maybe we need to look at different ways of having parties? Socializing is just part of life. My concern now is how we’re gonna deal with future obstacles. 

It would be great if we could stay in a bubble and only experience things that we enjoy, but life doesn’t work that way. We’re officially Team Uyen-D now. So when you’re venting it means we have a problem, not just you. You have to remember that your actions have consequences for us both now. And we can’t forget that it’s us against the problem. Not us against each other. ATEN!!