Our Love Story Begins Today

WWW. Anyhow, hope you had a great trip. I just wish Lucas was better. I hate picking on him, but he was the source of most of the drama. I feel bad for everyone.  Like how you feel today about Liem and the A Train, it’s the same way I feel about Lucas. It just ruins the mood. It’s sad, but I don’t see it changing, but I’ll keep praying on it. 🙏 

I pray that some day we will come to an understanding of time. Fortunately, we arrived just in time and the priest hadn’t started yet.  Related, I know you love soccer, but I wish you’d not let it distract you from life. When I’m talking to you or when you’re supposed to be watching Vinh, it would be great if you could focus on that until you can learn to multitask effectively. Nothing terrible has happened so far, but I want to keep it that way by reducing the chances of it happening. 🙏 Gosh Lucas is sooo loud and whiny. 😫 

Look at this beast: It almost looks like you know what you’re doing. But you did a good job. You can practice this exercise at the gym using the sitting row machine. Do you still have gym membership? Glad we had no issues so far today. Trying to keep my expectations low. WWW!!

Janet is coming. Woohoo. It kinda sucks that she has to go home so early. We should really make a trip to see NYC some time. We also got to see Mr. and Mrs. Keefe today. They’re doing well. I’m glad Vinh gave Mrs. Keefe a hug and played with Mr. Keefe. Some www and some wins today. 

I was so f*cking frustrated walking back from today. Who knows when you’re gonna read this, because you avoid trying to address our issues. I had to refrain from throwing my phone or punching the wall. It’s extra frustrating because this is similar shit your mom pulls on Tony and you can see how he can be frustrated, but with us you are blind or refuse to understand how it’s affecting us. I keep telling you that ignoring problems don’t make them go away. You wouldn’t ignore cancer would you?

Just kidding, no one is visiting New Jersey. I’m glad you had a good time with The Truongs. Hopefully it will buffer and drama you have this week with the Dowards.  Hopefully it won’t be 4+ years before we see them again. They’re always kind. Hopefully we are not wearing out our welcome. Just one more flight until Syracuse/Cleveland. 🥳 

I feel like we got a lot done in the 2+ days we were here. I mean it was 4 days on vacation, but really only 2 days to do anything. I was glad we were able to spend time with Han and not inconvenience (I hope we didn’t) him and his family too much. Sorry the Notre Dame was closed, but at least we say another church and you got to pray 🙏. Again, I hope your prayers come true. Enjoy your last night in the Old City (is that Montreal’s nickname?).

Maybe I don’t believe enough? Or maybe God just expects more from me? Either way, life sometimes sucks as a result. I’m glad you believe. I’m glad it has generally worked out for you. I just hope we can learn to find a balance between the levels of our beliefs. 🙏 

I know you don’t want to feel responsible for my blood pressure, but you partially are. Yes, I could leave you, but then I’d have to worry about Vinh and you so it wouldn’t be too different, except I had less control. You don’t seem to worry about much and when you do worry, it doesn’t seem to be things you should worry about too much, I understand we can’t think the same, but it’d be nice if the priorities we share could lead to similar thought processes instead of me worrying about most of it…

My car insurance actually called me back today (twice). It appears that my persistence paid off and the fault should be reassigned to the other party.  It’s still unfortunate that I have to do all this work. People should do the right thing and not be lying. It’s extra sad that two people lied and one that doesn’t even benefit supposedly. Just a reminder to myself that I should always try to do the right thing. Well I usually do if it involves other people. 😇 

I got a good raise today and a little something extra. Extra money is always good. It makes the future come a little faster. It used to be for me, but now it’s more exciting because it’s for Team Boba. Hopefully, the financial fortune will continue into the future and beyond. TLTQD!!!

Do you know the significance of Juneteenth? It’s when the slaves were freed in America. Now it’s a federal holiday and lots of places are impacted, including schools and daycare. As a result, Vinh made a new “friend” and got some bonus daddy and park time. I tried to save the fun stuff for mommy like bubbles, but I went to the park since he has outdoor time at daycare and it was cool outside. We got lucky and left park when it got busy and hot. It’s much easier to watch Vinh if that’s the only focus. One of the few things I can thank mi dans for. ✊🏿 

Between us, who takes care of the other person more? Is the difference due to motivation or desire? I know you pay for the majority of our vacations, but I don’t feel like you do much else for us (a lot for Vinh). I know you don’t care, but I hope I’m able to help us financially in retirement in order to ease the burden. 🙏 

Baby asleep early, but so is mommy.  Guess Daddy will go to sleep too. WWW…

And all I got was a pen without a special blessing. But I think that’s a verification of the belief that dad’s (and men) get the short end of the stick often.  Thankfully I didn’t have to cook, but I imagine someday I’ll probably be “working” on Father’s Day…I’m gonna take the $40 Chi Minh gave me and try to turn it into millions, but if I don’t, I’ll be okay cause that’s what I expected today. TLG!!!

Your posture sucks. My phone battery sucks. It’s library time. Just finished food time. Vinh has Daddy time later. Uyen has Ally time later. Rosauro time after that. Maybe swim time for daddy later. Very productive, but busy day. Relationships require effort. Www.

You should really read the evaluation if you haven’t. It was meant to be fun, but also with some truth. We’ve been together for a long time now and if we want to future to be better, we have to be better. If you have suggestions for me, please let me know. You have been getting better, but we really have to work on your decision making at the moment. Better reflex. TLG!!

The ultimate question I think I often hear about why people think God doesn’t exist is that bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people. I’m not saying my sister Nga is a saint, but she’s not a bad person and yet horrible stuff happened to her repeatedly.  The only answer I ever get that we can’t understand God’s purpose yet. Nga is 50+ years old, when is she supposed to understand God’s Plan? What is that plan? Does God expect everyone to be like Job? On the flip side why do good things happen to horrible people? And this is just one example. I’m just extra annoyed today because the other driver is saying Nga turned into them. But that’s not what Nga or Samantha is saying and I don’t see why they would lie. Everyone needs dashcams. TLG!!!

It’s our third one which requires a gift of leather. But you didn’t want the old wallet I gave you so I’m not sure what to get you. I’ll be honest, I totally spaced on this one. This is why I think it’s important that we don’t judge based on one day, but the entire year. If you want a leather good it’ll be delayed sorry. ATEN!!!

I got some more fried tofu today. I hope the estrogen doesn’t mess me up. I saved some for you and your boobs, but it’s probably too late and a lost cause sorry. At least it tastes better than the other place in my opinion. I hope you feel better by the time you get home today and don’t have any more problems. 🙏 

What a bad coincidence that Nga got into an accident after your comments yesterday. Are you more bitter that she’s causing me inconvenience? Anyhow, I was thinking today how we never finish the discussions or arguments we have. I’ve said it before. Problems don’t go away on their own, one of us (or both) has to do something about it. Let me know what you want to do and when. TLG!!!

There’s usually a time and place for everything. When it comes to criticizing your in-laws to your partner, the time is usually never and the place is usually nowhere.  I get your frustration with them, but it’s no different than my frustration with yours. You should always ask yourself how it feels when the shoe is on the other foot. Your family and you bother other people all the time. Especially your brother. Would you be okay if Martina complained that Tony was doing to much? The saddest part is that you know better, but you keep doing the same stuff. At least Vinh is a child. What’s your excuse? TLG!!!

For the weather today. Vinh and his daddy are very happy they won’t have to suffer in the heat. And that they get to go to church today. Win-Uyen situation. Probably get in a good nap too. Not the best round, but not a terrible round. I was plus 9 on par 3s so I could do better, but I got 2 birdies. I also shanked some irons which is sad and frustrating, TLG!!!

Sorry, I think the wallet you got me has served its purpose. This new one isn’t as cool, but at least I don’t have to buy one. I do have an old LV one from Peter and a sleek wallet, but they don’t have spots for a picture. Also doesn’t have as many places to hide things, but it’s does its purpose. You do not need (and shouldn’t) buy me a new one. Thanks for the thought though. ATEN!!!

I woke up at exactly 559A today and was saddened to see that the charger turned off after I fell asleep. I was more saddened when I tried to start charging it again and it turned off. I wonder if I need to dial it back to 30A. I only turned it to 37A to ensure it had time to fully charge to 80%. Fortunately, there is enough time to swing to the Wal-Mart and get it charged before my baby gets to work. It’s not cheap, but cheaper than the San Jose trip and gas. But I wonder how much considering my time and the fact that it seems to be using more electricity when it’s hot. TLG!!!

Can’t remember the last time the bed was clear. Except when I cleared it to wash the sheets. But look see, see here, it’s clear: How long will it last you say? Until tomorrow? No. Just a few hours today. It’s already got some new laundry on it. There’s no where else to fold it. Unless you want me to leave it in the guest room downstairs? Www,

Is that what we’re doing now? Please remember that trying doesn’t always result in a baby immediately. So as your planning, keep that in mind. You don’t like Vynna? Vinh and Vynna? Non-traditional spelling. Thien is so old school. Haven’t seen a newer kid named that…

That’s the sound that mommy makes, but I still love you. But if you’re gonna be a 🐷, you need to be nicer and cleaner cause they’re nice and clean. Maybe we can get tacos tomorrow since it’s Tuesday. Today was a good day. Hooray!!! Now let’s hope Vinh sleeps early 🙏.

Check it out: It’s like you want me to penetrate you, but I’ll let you sleep. Not enough players to swim today. Lots of the Trans are headed to SoCal tomorrow until Friday. Fun times. Makes me hungry just thinking about it. Anyhow, you want to challenge me to a weight loss battle? To help motivate you?

You get 2 points today. We need to have a jar to see how we’re doing. I don’t like keeping score, but I’ve felt very taken for granted lately. My vessel just feels empty. Thanks for putting something in. ATEN!!!