Our Love Story Begins Today

Today I went to see Vince. I saw their entire couch with laundry that wasn’t folded. Makes me feel less bad about this: Still not cool though. I mean they make drawers and closets for a reason. Anyhow, we should visit them more. Vinh can point at Dani’s nipples. 

Sometimes I feel like I’m raising 2 kids. Both of them are picky with food. Both of them don’t listen sometimes. Both of them don’t remember sometimes. Both of them have attention issues. On another topic, even though gift cards don’t expire, the business could close. In this case the points went away. Just a reminder to not delay in using thing or getting things done. Might not get a chance to. I didn’t get you a drink because I know you’re trying to be healthy. You’re welcome.

What are husbands supposed to be for wives? For husbands, wives are supposed to be their peace. I’m reminded of that video where that girl says make his dick hard, not his life, so he can make your pussy wet not your eyes. This is another funny spin on that belief. The internet is full of such great info. On a separate note, I prayed 3 decades the last few nights. Not sure about the divine mercy so I went that route. 🙏 

I don’t ask what your plans are to try to control you. I ask what your plans are so I can plan around them and prepare. I’m fine not eating Black Bear Diner, but it would have been nice to eat there. I know you didn’t intend to not include me and your intentions weren’t bad, but the results kind of sucked. I also noticed that you didn’t bring the diaper bag with you so it could have been bad. Seems like it worked out this time, but what if it was something more serious? TLG!!!

As we were driving to the fancy party yesterday we got into a disagreement. It reminded that when something is important to you, it gets done or you try. And when it’s not important, it is easily set to the wayside and forgotten.  It’s not that I expect everything to be important to you, but rather that it seems so little is important enough for you to make an effort. Maybe it’s everyone around you’s fault that they help so much? Sometimes it can be frustrating to see you say you don’t have time to do one thing only to see you have time to something else. It’s also sometimes I feel like I’m parenting 2 children with all the things I have to do and remember. TLG!!!

Quite a tale of two parties today. Super fancy and super casual. But both good in their own way. You’re welcome. I got cooler friends. But now they’re your friends too. I’m not worried about you stealing them. 😆 

Saturday golf. My golf game sucks. But it’s always nice to get out. I debated if I want to get better or if I want a higher handicap (by not playing better) so I can win more money on the golf trip.  The eternal struggle. Anyhow, I’m gonna try to get back into it regularly. I’m sorry you changed your therapy appt. Hopefully a new spot will open or you will be able to do it with Vinh. 🙏 

Or musician as they call them. Lorriane got Vinh these musical toys.  Guess it’ll help us find out what his talent and interest are early on so we can properly develop them. Just hoping he finds something that he can take care of himself, not hurt others and possibly help others 🙏.

I wasn’t planning on parking this close. Crazy. I had a really cute small plastic cup I used to my coffee to go. Maybe I should get some for Vinh. Not looking to Daddy Daycare tomorrow, but it is what it is and I’m glad my work is flexible enough to allow me to do that. Although I probably need to work some tonight as we got a lot going on. TLG!!!

Look what Merryhill found: Looks like Merryhill saved you some troubles and increased your chances to win $1000s of dollars. I will try to wear it for you until you get 60 points today. Also they said that you can use the existing form for Vinh. What photos you want me to print out? TTQD!!!

Today we had a work meeting during lunch so we got lunch after. It’s the fancy Mexican place by work, Mayahuel. I never find anything I like there so I just got tacos.  It’s too bad I don’t drink they paid for alcohol too. But it is what it is and I probably shouldn’t drink unnecessary things. Work is cool, but I still can’t wait to retire. ATEN!!

Remember, we’re a team. Your chip on the shoulder mentality didn’t work well in the past with us. You don’t need to keep using it in the future.  Thanks for taking Vinh out to Costco today. But if you did it just to prove to me that you can do it own your own, that’s not a great reason. If you did it to give me free time, thanks. But like my parents, sometimes I rather take on a burden rather than leaving it to someone else. Hopefully this trip was good success. 🙏 

I don’t know what you want out of our relationship, but I think for most men, their partners are supposed to be their peace, not their source of problems.  I can’t speak for all men, but most would agree. Men live very difficult lives. More is expected of us. When sacrifices need to be made, it’s men that usually make the sacrifice (i.e. war, sinking ships, etc.). So when in doubt ask yourself, how can I make my husband’s life easier? So what do you want? Also we never ended up talking about the YouTube video you made me watch…

For my amazing friends. Man, you need to up your friend game. Today we got to spend time with the Kopicos. As usual, everyone is good to him. You do a good job feeding him. But we got to figure out your energy issues. Can’t always be leaving to his own devices because we’re tired. 🥱 

I was able to do so much today. Could have done more if I didn’t help Peter clean up and organize Patrie’s stuff. Also was able to drop off car code tester to Minh. Hopefully, they figure out the problem. Fortunately, it doesn’t seem to be a fluid issue. Turned in old license plate to DMV. Was surprised the process was in and out. I bought lottery and got gas. Gonna go pick up beef jerky and possibly play MJ. #efficient 

He kept saying “mama” and pointing at the yogurt. Maybe that’s his thing with you.  Today I went to the doctor and it seems like I should start eating like Vinh lol. Doesn’t sound very exciting, but it seems to be a good diet. Also with more exercise. I’ll need to be more active as well. I know that high cholesterol runs in my family, but it still kinda sucks. WWW.

I was driving to work yesterday and my phone died. There was no charger in the car so I drove in silence. Forgot I had the radio option. This morning, I’m waiting for Vinh to wake up and I’m finding myself with quiet time again. It’s an odd experience. I’ve gotten so used to always having noise during the day that it feels strange to be still and quiet. Additionally, it always seems like when I plan for stuff it doesn’t happen. I packed my laptop up assuming Vinh would wake up. He doesn’t. So I missed out on working for the last hour. But the moment I turn on my laptop, he’s gonna wake up. Murphy’s Law. TLG!!

That’s the one thing I wish for everyone. To have wisdom. Wisdom is knowing what to do with the information we’re provided. You can have all the information in the world at your fingertips like we do today, but without wisdom, it’s useless. It’s unfortunate that when we disagree about something, you usually get your way. Especially when it impacts me or other people. I hope you can see the sacrifices others make for you (i.e. Vinh and I) I can only pray on this and respect your decisions 🙏 TLG!!! (I got fluids changed today at lunch on the Accord).

Finally feel like we’re back into the grind. It was a busy weekend, but we got it all done. I finally finished washing and folding all that laundry. My shirt is so accurate (So Tired). I was just thinking that it doesn’t really matter how early you work on the early days since I’m taking him to daycare, but if you work earlier those days, you get home earlier. Speaking of grind 👉👌💦👧

I stand by my stance that you try hard to be a good mom for Vinh. Most the time, it’s a good result. Hopefully, the benefits you get from being a mom outweighs the work. Please make sure to take care of yourself so that you will be around to be his mom for a long time to come. It would be really sad if no one stood up for him at church on Mother’s Day! ❤️ 

I really should have charged the car on my own last night or today. My fear came true that the charging station was full and I had to go to another one that luckily had spots. Sometimes I think I should do what I believe is right instead of deferring the decision. I hope it’s not offensive if I take charge sometimes. I also hope that we can improve our decision making skills. We could be home by now, but instead, we’re charging the Tesla…TLG

You haven’t volunteered me in a while. Thank you for that. But tonight you did. I was annoyed (not mad). It brought back memories about how you said you don’t care about it, you’re fine dealing with the consequences. Maybe the consequences have to be more severe? I wonder if you would feel differently if the shoe was on the other foot. How did you feel today when were running late? Probably not good right? That’s how I feel often. Like when we’re late to church or a party. I hope you remember that feeling for the next time we’re running late. It’s like you’re okay being late to a party until it was at Tan and Jenny’s. Anyhow, just some food for thought. I really don’t want to have to volunteer you for something, but maybe it’s the only way. TLG!!!

Here we come. So much to do, before we go. It’ll be nice to getaway for a short period, but it’s gonna be a lot of work too. Three blind mice. You sure are noisy downstairs. Hope you dried the dishes before putting them away. 🙏 Glad the Tesla charger works again. Wonder why it decided to short out now. TLG!!!

Not the melon, but the emotion. I could be wrong, but I sensed some hostility and bitterness when you texted about money and my family. Obviously it’s text so there’s no emotion, but it’s based on in person experience. I just want to remind you that our finances are separate for a reason. Any money I don’t spend on others isn’t automatically money for you or Vinh so you really shouldn’t be bitter about it. It’s not productive and it only annoys you and me. This is why we keep our money separate. I will take care of my responsibilities so you don’t have to worry. I never ask you for money when it comes to my family and if you buy something, I’m always willing to split. I hope we don’t have to talk about this again, but I wanted to let you know how it felt. ATEN!!!

Almost forgot to blog. Tomorrow is gonna be busy too. I should have blogged at work. Gotta make time for things earlier rather than later. Later may no come. You know what else isn’t coming? My chim www. I heard a podcast about why men have affairs. I was trying to get tickets to the show for the famous therapist, but it’s sold old. 😖 

You don’t drink enough of it. And you apparently only drink coconut flavored. You really should drink more water. I hear it helps with a lot of issues. You didn’t even drink any at Saigon Oi today. Anyhow, there’s always chances to do better. I hope you take them. I gotta finish this lei now. TTQD!!!

Tell the world I’m coming’ home. Did you nho me? I missed you guys. Hope you enjoyed your time away from me. My time was okay. Jay said we need to visit him 😂. I think he’s hurt we haven’t. I know you prefer one on one, but I prefer if it was a group so we don’t have to entertain each other the whole time. Not gay. ❤️ 

I’m sitting next to the window behind the hostess. She’s Asian and she has boobs. I know you don’t, but I thought about you. I really want to do better. I think there’s a lot of room for improvement. The first thing is that I do need to stop worrying about other people’s money. Next is that I do need to learn when to multitask and when to focus. I should focus more when I’m with you and Vinh. After this trip will be a reset. ATEN!!

Minh. That guy is always doing something wrong. Anyhow, this course came with a “free shirt/hat, balls, drink” for the “great” price of $250 🤦‍♂️  Anyhow, I was gonna get you something, but nothing was nice enough sorry. I’ll see if I can find anything nice enough for my wife. ATEN!!!

Good bye for now. Please pray for me on this trip that I have a good time and play well and return safely. 🙏  Feel free to have fun, be safe and bond with people while I’m gone. Man I’m tired. Anyhow. TTQD!!!

But I lost. Lost 4 hours of my life I’m never getting back and a few dollars on drink at the game. I tried to be enthusiastic, but I hope I didn’t over do it. Anyhow, it’s in the books now. Thanks again for holding down the fort while I’m gone. May Vinh and you bond without either of you having to get hurt. 🙏