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Are like assholes they say. Because everyone has one. It’s unfortunate that some of your family may have a negative one of me. It’s also unfortunate that you don’t defend me or explain your role in it, but it is what it is. I’m not saying they’re wrong, but they definitely don’t know the whole story and you’re not helping it either.  I really have tried to do and give you everything you asked for (even things I don’t want to), but in return, what I get is lacking and a challenging life. I really hope you eventually learn to stop blaming others or take the easy way out and realize that part of being an adult in a relationship is taking accountability for your actions and growing to be better for everyone. You spend all this time doing the religious stuff, but has it made you a better spouse or parent or just make you feel good about yourself? You talk about how I treat you different than others, you ever think it’s the same with you and your treatment of me?

Failed 😞

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I wish we could know how each of our actions impacts the future. But usually we can’t. I don’t know how Vinh’s fall (our fail) will impact him. I pray it does him good like Tony. But it can also do us good.  We can use the experience to be better parents and to reiterate what’s really important. I’m not gonna say life is great as long as we’re together. I mean we still need to make and have money. But I will try to appreciate what we have more.

One Heart ❤️

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You did awesome with my cousins and the day in Vung Tau. I know you said it was stressful, but you did well. At least I think you did.  For that, I’m gonna give you one heart back. Now you’re ❤️ πŸ’” πŸ’” πŸ’” πŸ’”. So our love story gets to continue. Keep up the good work and you’ll be at full love in no time…

Good Job

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I don’t think I said anything today…There was lots of chances too. πŸ‘  Anyhow. Hope you had a good time in Revolutionary War Country. Can’t imagine we’ll be going back anytime soon….

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There’s really nothing to blog about at this point. At least not about our Love Story. It’s all blank pages here going forward. I will probably mess up and say something because it’s my nature, but I will work hard to make it natural. Ironic that the word natural is some times a result of hard work and habit. Pray for me (and us) πŸ™.

We Made It

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I don’t know why people still insist on the rehearsal dinner and the ceremony in general. They all seem so stressed out over it. Seems dumb to volunteer and do things that stress you out. I’m sorry to run up their tab, but I’m sure they would have ran up mine and they don’t mind. At least it’s probably cheaper than alcohol…

“Vacation”

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Sorry it’s not Cabo and that there may be family drama, but it’s not like we had a choice to be here or not so don’t be too hard on yourself.  Maybe just drink “coffee” like Vinh and you’ll be alright. Just breathe and try to say the third thing that comes to your mouth. Or not talk. It’s gonna be alright. It’s only 3-4 days… πŸ™